“Hope Fulfilled: Our Journey to Marriage is the simple yet beautifully told faith story of Sarah and Enoch Lavender. Their honesty and disclosure about being promised by God to be married, and then waiting years for it to come to pass, will find an echo with many. Yet, when God moved, things happened at dizzying speed. Within two years, they went from being single to a family of four! The book is transparent, heartfelt, practical and encouraging. If you are waiting, or know someone who is, do yourself a favour and read Hope Fulfilled.”
Rev. Kameel MAJDALI, PHD
Director, Teach All Nations
“I am very happy to endorse the message of this book and the wonderful marriage testimony of Sarah and Enoch Lavender on obedience and waiting to hear from God, despite setbacks and disappointments, as they searched for God’s will for their marriage partner. I highly recommend this book for anyone who is looking for godly guidelines on how to know if it is God’s will to marry, how to find the right partner and how to face pressures and tests during marriage.”
Alex Genovese
Director, Derek Prince Ministries-Australia
“Many of us make our decisions, formulate our plans, and then ask God for His blessing. This young couple, Sarah and Enoch Lavender, have instead determined to seek the perfect will of God for their lives and consequently, as you will see, He directs their paths (according to Prov. 3:5-6). I commend this spiritual saga, but suggest you read it prayerfully, expectantly, for what He has done for others, He can also do for you!”
Ps Tony Hallo
“Hope Fulfilled: Our Journey to Marriage may bring you to tears as it did for me. It is a touching story of a young man and woman who went through heartache, disappointment and setbacks but held onto God’s promise that He would bring them the right marriage partner. The advice they give of holding onto God’s promises, though unfulfilled for many years, makes it a book you need to read.”
Barbara Miller
Pastor and Author, Centre for International Reconciliation and Peace
“Hope Fulfilled: Our Journey to Marriage contains the meaningful and moving testimony of the journey of Sarah and Enoch Lavender toward achieving a happy Christian marriage. The honest depictions of the challenges, struggles and disappointments they faced, as God prepared them for life together, will inspire others. Enoch and Sarah’s experience demonstrates clearly the uniqueness of each marriage journey when God is honoured. His careful, loving guidance shines through these pages that, hopefully, will encourage others to discover their God-given life companion. Their insights are relevant; their experiences often poignant; their lessons timely.”
Ps Chris & Ps Erica Grace
Foundations for the Family Ministry
Book - Hope Fulfilled: Finding Love, God's Way
Are you waiting for the fulfilment of a promise from God?
Have you at times lost hope and doubted that it will ever come to pass?
You are not alone!
Join Sarah and Enoch Lavender as they share with you the highs and lows of their personal journey towards marriage. God had sovereignly promised them both marriage, yet they both faced discouragement and disillusionment when the promise did not come to pass in the way and at the time they had hoped.
In this book, Enoch and Sarah Lavender share the life-changing lessons they learned along the way, as well as their encouraging testimony of God's faithfulness in fulfilling His promises.
This book also features key insights into ancient Jewish wedding practices. These practices beautifully portray the Messiah’s passionate love for His bride and our need to be ready for Him.
"If you are waiting, or know someone who is, do yourself a favour and read Hope Fulfilled".
— Rev. Kameel MAJDALI, PhD, Director, Teach All Nations
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This article is drawn from our new book “Hope Fulfilled: Finding Love, God's Way” (see link at the end of this article to pre-order the book). Hope Fulfilled takes you through Sarah and Enoch’s journey of receiving a promise from God and yet having to wait many years to see it come to pass. It also dedicates an entire section to looking at the links between ancient Jewish wedding customs and the teachings of Jesus (Yeshua) about End Times. To illustrate this significance, the marriage of Tali and Brayden Waller is given as an example.
Marriage is intended to be a picture of a far greater reality: the love of the Messiah for His Bride – us, His chosen people. In this way, each marriage, each love story, and even the longing to find a mate, I believe, is intended by God to point us to a far greater love story.
To further understand the prophetic symbolism of marriage, we turn to the modern day story of Brayden and Tali Waller who chose to go through a uniquely prophetic journey to marriage. This young couple - with the blessing of their parents - hosted a beautiful and emotional betrothal ceremony attended by family and friends. After the couple pledged their love to each other, washed each other’s feet, publicly read their marriage ketubah (covenant) and shared in communion together, the ceremony ended on a sad note as Brayden solemnly rose to his feet to announce that he was leaving. The camera followed Tali’s face as Brayden left the room, and from that point onwards, the young couple had no direct face to face contact until the time of their marriage ceremony. Being a builder, Brayden quite literally went to work on building their future house during this waiting period.
As the months went by, it was increasingly evident how much Tali was yearning and longing to be with her future husband. Finally Brayden completed the house and arrangements were made for the families on both sides to spend a week at a camping ground. In keeping with the ancient Jewish tradition, the groom would appear at an unspecified time during the week and the bride would have to make sure she was ready. The excitement and longing was increasingly intense during this week, until finally everyone heard the sounding of the shofar (trumpet) echoing through the camp grounds. The crowd quickly gathered at the appointed meeting place, waiting in anticipation for what was about to happen next. Gasps and applause arose from the crowd as they spotted in the distance the groom himself, riding on a stunning white horse and flanked by his groomsmen carrying their shofars.
Arriving at the crowd, Brayden descended from his horse and embraced his beloved, Tali. As Brayden and Tali finally met again, they quite simply couldn’t stop smiling as they gazed into each other’s eyes. Finally the journey was complete, the separation was over and they would now spend the rest of their lives together.
The Waiting Period
You and I are like Tali, waiting for our future bridegroom. But unlike Tali, we are waiting for the most glorious bridegroom of all history, Jesus: One who loves us with the greatest love ever possible.
Having just got married myself, I know that at a wedding, it is not just the bride who is excited. The groom can hardly wait to finally see and be with His beloved bride. Jesus has been waiting all this time for His Father to give Him the go ahead to go and fetch His beloved bride – you. He loves you intensely and passionately and is more excited over you than you can ever imagine. He can’t wait to see you, clothed in white and in splendour, and to be with you.
He is Faithful and Just
Yet many Christians walk through life with their heads bowed in shame. They feel condemned over their past, they feel inferior, and some even feel like failures. They may have heard that Jesus is coming, but their guilt and shame hinders them from embracing His return with the confident excitement of a bride.
One of my favourite Scriptures which helped me overcome this issue is found in 1 John 1:9: “if we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” As I have pondered this Scripture over the years, I agreed that God is faithful to forgive our sins as we confess them but I kept stumbling over the part of the verse that says that He is “just” to forgive our sins. “What is just about forgiving me?” I thought to myself. “After all, justice would demand that I would pay for my sins.”
One day I unexpectedly found the answer to my question at a local coffee shop. I had met a friend for coffee, and when I went to pay, the shopkeeper declined my payment, saying it had already been paid. I asked my friend and she hadn’t paid for it either. It turned out that an unknown person had paid in advance for me to have that coffee.
Reflecting on this, I realised that the shopkeeper could not have received my payment for the coffee. That would have been unjust as it had already been paid for. In the same way, God can’t accept my payment for my sins because they have already been paid for. In this way, God’s justice is satisfied and I receive unmerited and undeserved forgiveness.
This verse has been a life-changer for me, by removing shame and condemnation, and giving me confidence in the Lord.
Waiting with Expectation
We can therefore have assurance that we are forgiven and that we are now clothed in those beautiful white robes of righteousness, ready for our heavenly wedding day. From Heaven’s perspective, you and I are truly part of the glorious bride and our heavenly bridegroom can’t wait to see us when He returns.
May that Day come soon!